We recently attended the wedding of some Indian Christian friends. The groom has been incredibly helpful to us in banking matters since our arrival in India, and we now feel like a part of his family. The couple both come from a village on the south-east coast of Tamil Nadu – a very strong Christian area with Portuguese influence.
As with all Indian weddings music is very important and each couple hires a band to welcome them to the church and lead them in procession from it.
Here, the groom is entering the church under a double umbrella.
We have been to many Indian weddings and they all have their attraction. There is a calm solemnity in the Muslim weddings, and a lively exuberance in the Hindu weddings. I personally found the Catholic Christian wedding service and mass most enjoyable because the entire congregation participated in the hymns, creeds and prayers. For me there was a sense of participation which I found quite moving.
During the service the couple made their vows and exchanged rings before lighting candles around a cross. They also exchange beautiful garlands which is a typical part of all Indian weddings, no matter what the religion.
The bride wore a beautiful traditional sari, and also a white veil and train at least 10 feet long!
As they emerged from the church after the service the band played loudly and enthusiastically while the happy couple were led to their car under the double umbrella.
At the reception they cut the cake
Guests then went in turn to formally great the couple on the stage and wish them all the best for the future.
We wish the happy couple all the best for their future life together!